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In Memory Of John Lawrence Rose
10th August 1965
– 30th March 2007
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This memorial website was created in the memory of
John Lawrence Rose, born
in Montclair, New Jersey
on the 10th August 1965
and passed away on the 30th March 2007, 41 years of age.
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| Biography |
| Full Name: John Lawrence Rose |
| Born: 10th August 1965 |
| Passed Away: 30th March 2007 |
| Age: 41 years of age |
| Location: Bridgton, Maine |
| Country: The United States |
| Spouse: Kathryn T. Stanton-Rose |
| Father: Ralph Morgan Rose |
| Mother: Dorothy Jane Lewis-Rose |
| Birth Place: Montclair, New Jersey |
| Children: Michael Jonathon, Allyson Michelle, Susan Dorothy, Kathryn Marie |
| Siblings: Edward, Robert, Richard (deceased) Marie, Joseph |
| Occupation: Self-employed |
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This memorial was created by Kathryn on
5 May 2007(update)
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Survived By: His mother Dorothy, wife Kathryn, children Michael Jonathon, Allyson Michelle, their mother Lynne Smith and her husband Mike, children Susan Dorothy and Kathryn Marie. John's brother Ed and his partner Chris, John's brother Bob and his wife Kim, John's sister Marie and her husband Jamie, and John's brother Joe and his wife Ellen, eight neices, three nephews, Grand-neices Tiffany and Lily, and Grand-nephew Rick III.
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Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry—
I am not there... I did not die...
February 28, 1998 ~Happy Tenth Anniversary, Pooh. Ten years ago we stood in a snow covered field in the shadow of Mt. Katahdin and pledged ourselves to each other, 'till death do us part. That part came far too soon, but your love, and our love through our children, lives on. I miss you each and every day. Love, Your Pooh~
I have never had the honor of knowing anyone so giving and loving. John used to laugh at me locking our home. "Maybe someone needs it more than us," he always said. He loved doing massive cookouts and he loved nothing more than inviting everyone to the house, where he would cook 2 or 3 types of meat, 3 or 4 veggies, appetizers, rolls, you name it. No one but NO ONE left our home hungry.
Almost three years ago our neighbors, who we knew casually, lost their home in a fire. John didn't hesitate. He invited our neighbors and their four sons to move in until they rebuilt. That took over 6 months. It was a bit chaotic, but John loved it, loved helping. We truly had a grand time, and our 'neighbors' went to 'best friends.' As John's brother Joe said, John was the best of the Good Samaritan and the poor woman from the Bible rolled into one. If he could do anything for someone in need, you can be assured that he did it. It was our neighbors who came to my side and helped me through those first horrible days, and they are there for us, still. ~Kathryn Rose
THE MEASURE OF A MAN
Not "How did he die?" But "How did he live?"
Not "What did he gain?" But "what did he give?"
Not "What was his station?" But "Had he a heart?"
and "How did he play his God-given part?"
Not "What was is shrine?" Nor "What was his creed?
But "Had he befriended those really in need?"
Not "What did the piece in the newspaper say?"
But "How many were sorry when he passed away?"
Was he ever ready with a word or good cheer,
to bring back a smile, to banish a tear?"
These are the units to measure the worth of a man
as a man, regardless of birth.
Eulogy for John written and read at his funeral by his daughter, Allyson:
If you walked up to some random person and asked them what 14,831 meant to them, they'd think you were crazy. But, if you asked me, I'd reply, the amount of days my father blessed this earth with his presence.
We all can remember him as the big kid of the family... always in for the fun part of everything. The countless "hookeyla's", belly button stories, hikes up Mt. Katahdin, vacations at gramps camp and everyday adventures with dad were always amazing. Everything happend simply because "we were Roses, and thats what Roses do."
So many things run through my mind when I think of my father; humorous, joyful, happy go lucky, daring, but most of all loving. During happy times he was the life of the party, and when you were feeling down he was the first person to always make you crack a smile. As he passes on through the gates of heaven today, I am assured hes watching over us all with god, keeping us close underneath his wing. His love for us will never die or fade, just as our's for him will remain forever.
Although his life was cut short to only 41 years, he made the world a brighter place for those 41 years. We all remember him a the light of the family, but for now and forever, he will be the light in my heart that will keep me going day to day. And just to wrap it all up; I said it when I was younger, promised him my words would remain true, and always made sure he knew, " It will always be cool to hang out with dad." I'll miss you Daddy... rest in peace. - Allyson Rose
"Blessings"
I have been blessed.
I am blessed with two beautiful daughters.
I am blessed with two intelligent and thoughtful stepchildren.
I am blessed with my mother and father, my sister and brother.
I am blessed with a wonderful mother-in-law and many caring in-laws.
I am blessed with devoted friends.
I am blessed to call John's friends my own.
I am blessed with a lifetime of memories.
I have been blessed with knowing a love many never find.
I am blessed because John loves me.
My best friend.
~Kathryn T. Rose April 2007 |
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Poetry In Memory of John Rose
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Online Condolence Guest Book
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31 Mar 2010 – from Lisa
Hey sweets... Beautiful memorial:) Sorry I am late, as usual. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully, talk with you tonight sometime.
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31 Mar 2010 – from Fran
hey Miss Kathy,stopped by your page.He had some beautiful eyes.I did not know him ,but I send you and the girls all my prayers and thoughts today and every day .
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18 Oct 2009 – from Allyson
Hey dad;; im a college kid now! I know you're smiling and proud. Im just about into my second month now and its going pretty well. I miss home a lot and you more... Im having a tough time writing right now, kind of crying. I'll be back later, love you always!
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10 Aug 2009 – from Michael
Happy Birthday Dad!!! ha i remember the look on your face when you realized you were 40! I wish I could see the look for 44!!! Tryin' to be strong for the girls, because I know that's what you would want, there getting so big Dad. Ally's leaving for college in about 2 weeks and I don't know what I'm going to do. Hopefully I'll be getting out of here soon. I slipped up Dad, but was able to catch myself before I fell, and the grades are back on track. When I look in the mirror I see you and when I...
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20 Apr 2009 – from Kel
Looks like a terrific man--you should all be very proud to have known him...............May you find peace in your hearts...
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29 Mar 2009 – from Heather Ricker
Thinking of you of you John...
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22 Feb 2009 – from Michael Rose
Hey Dad...turned 20 over the weekend, not a teenage anymore. I wish you could of been here to celebrate with me. Things are getting real rough lately, and I miss you more and more. People say time helps you heal but it seems like its only getting worse. I think about how were coming up on two years since your gone, and I still haven't let you go. Little by little each day I cry the tears that I should have shed at your funeral. I held it in and never told anyone how you were the greatest man I e...
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5 Jan 2009 – from Yvonne
So sorry to read of your great loss. We just lost a dear friend of my daughter. She just turned 24 on Nov. 30th 2008. Gina passed away on Dec. 27th 2008 from a rare cancer formed in her heart. She is one of seven in the world with this type of cancer. I just happened to get on this site while looking for help on writing a eulogy. Your John sounds like he was a wonderful man truly walking the walk. He sounds like everything we should try and want to be. I know he is in Heaven watching ove...
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4 Jul 2010
Cousin Mary Margaret placed this flower in memory
To look @ this photo reminds me of the LOVE that Dear John exuded. I send love to all who loved hi
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4 Jul 2010
Kathy & Kate Rose placed this flower in memory
Sooo many balloons went up tonight, but I bet you caught Kates!
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20 Jun 2010
Susan placed this flower in memory
I really love u daddy and happy father's day!
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20 Jun 2010
Kathy Rose placed this flower in memory
Happy Fathers Day, Pooh. You are missed.
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23 May 2010
Your Pooh placed this flower in memory
I miss you ..... 'Bloop!'
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12 May 2010
Kathryn Rose placed this flower in memory
miss you.
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27 Apr 2010
Your Pooh placed this flower in memory
I planted tulips! And they GREW! xoxoxo Pooh.....
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30 Mar 2010
Richard Rose placed this flower in memory
3 years and everyday it still seams like yesterday... miss you a lot man
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30 Mar 2010
Kathryn Rose placed this flower in memory
It doesnt feel like three years. We love and miss you, Pooh. xoxoxox
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30 Mar 2010
Maria, Michael & Joey placed this flower in memory
Can't believe it has been 3 years. We miss you a lot.
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6 Mar 2010
Kathy Rose placed this flower in memory
"Bloop!"
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17 Feb 2010
Kathryn Rose placed this flower in memory
Miss you. "Bloop!" xoxoxo
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Author Journal
30 Mar 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
So this I dedicate to Michael and Allyson,,,,
John was, by no ones standard, fond of spending money for those "unnecessary frivolities." So on this, the third anniversary of his entry into Heaven (which I am quite certain he is trying to remodel using duct tape and spackle,) I give to you, Gentle Reader, two anecdotes about his beloved genetic frugality.
When we bought our house, there was a lovely tree of some sort or another (I had no interest.... John would have told you the type, speci...
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7 Jan 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
When the rain comes you think that everyone has gone away
When the night falls you wonder if you shouldn't find someplace
To run and hide
Escape the pain
But hiding's such a lonely thing to do
I can't stop the rain from falling down on you again
I can't stop the rain, but i will hold you till it goes away
When the rain comes you blame it on the things that you have done
When the storm fades you know the rain has fall'n on everyone
So rest a while
It will be alright
No one loves yo...
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7 Jan 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
In every heart there is a room
A sanctuary safe and strong
To heal the wounds from lovers past
Until a new one comes along
I spoke to you in cautious tones
You answered me with no pretense
And still I feel I said too much
My silence is my self defense
And every time I've held a rose
It seems I only felt the thorns
And so it goes, and so it goes
And so will you soon I suppose
But if my silence made you leave
Then that would be my worst mistake
So I will share this room with yo...
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